Supporting anyone affected by the tragic death of a baby

Befriending and Group Meetings

What is a befriender?

A befriender is a volunteer who has been personally affected by the loss of a baby and has received specialist training to offer confidential support to others.  When you contact our helpline, you will be asked to leave a message and a befriender will ring you back.  Befrienders can also be contacted via email.  Our befrienders include mothers, fathers and grandparents.

Group Meetings

Our group support meetings are led by Sands befrienders. You are welcome to join us from 7.15pm for refreshments and to have a look at the basket of support books that we have available to borrow.

With the meeting starting at 7.30pm, befrienders will share their stories and experiences and you will be invited to share your story if you wish, or you may just want to come and listen to others to begin with.  Attending your first meeting can be emotional, so please don’t feel pressured to let us know you are planning to come; you are welcome to just turn up.

Group meetings in 2018, at
Kingsmere Community Centre in Bicester- Any questions – please get in touch with us on our befriender phone number 07513 295504.
(This is the building opposite the school where our meetings were being held)

Wednesday 5th December

Next Group Meeting

Wednesday 5th December


Kingsmere Community Centre, Bicester



It was wonderful to see so many of you at our annual service of remembering and sharing. We hope you gained some comfort from being there. Continue Reading

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